Journey to Marriage.

Marriage is a union between a man and a lady in holy matrimony to become husband and wife.

Marriage occur when two parties agreed to live together and most importantly love and care for one another till death.

Marriage is between matured minds and not boys. Ability to tolerate one another is very key in marriage. These days lots of young men are afraid to marry for several reasons likewise, ladies. The common excuse is I AM NOT READY.

A friend of mine once told me, his fiancee wanted him to propose marriage to her after several months of dating but, he is not ready and it's not the perfect time yet for him and so, the lady and my friend couldn't continue with the date, even though my friend had been to her house
severally and her mom already knew him and had eaten countless number of plates of rice from her mother's shop yet they couldn't go ahead. Now the lady in question is getting married to another guy from her church but she did not invite her ex.While the young man is still not ready.

Marriage for me, has no perfect time and does not require sentiment. The earlier the better is the secret of a joyful marriage where both parties are young but matured in minds, sincere to one another, love and care genuinely for one another, respect one another, willing to share and support one another and most importantly, honour God.

No sentiment in choice of partner, do not satisfy one person and dissatisfy your conscience. Be willing to say NO where necessary when you genuinely know you are NOT READY. NOT READY in this context means, you are not matured in mind/thinking to handle issues of life, your wife can't rely on your judgment skill as well as decision ability. If you still relate to your mother on your relationship issue while dating, it's a sign that you are not matured nor ready for the Institution call marriage either man or lady.

On my Wedding Day.

One of the happiest days in the life of a man/lady is WEDDING DAY.

Wedding is a one day event while marriage is forever.


Do not say "I DO" when your partner has no CHARACTER. Do not hide it because it might be disastrous along the line, even when you manage it at the start when you finally enter into the Institution where you can no longer turn back, you may not have the technical capacity to manage anymore so, decline before you incline to I DO stage.

Consider her TASTE. If your wife to be is a high-class fellow, think about it, can you meet her needs? can you satisfy her? can you maintain the lifestyle she is used to? etc before you say "I DO" .

Marriage is not a battlefield, not a mortal combat thing. Marriage is a beautiful thing and a blessing from God.